Question: What’s something your parents used to say to you as a child that you promised yourself you’d never say—but now you catch yourself saying all the time? My answer: I really hated when my parents said to me: You are not allowed to stand up from the table until you eat all your food. So I never said the same to my children. But I do something that my father used to do and the crazy thing is i used to hate my father doing this. When I am angry about something or at somebody, I can't discuss this problem with that person. I need to be quiet for a long time (not just hours but days or weeks!) and I can stop every kind of communication with this person. And if this person forces me to talk about the problem it only makes me worse. The best thing to do is to just leave me alone and let me get over it in my own time... and I will.
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